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Frequently Asked Questions
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Madelynn's offers answers
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Please click on the topic below to receive more information.
If this is not enough information, please submit a question or call
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| What
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Starting
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Gowns
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Budgeting? |
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do we register? |
Why
service is VERY important. |
| What
services should we expect? |
Time-Table |
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| Budgeting? |
Deciding
colors and styles? |
| Styles
and body types? |
Time-Table |
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Budgeting? |
| Services
you should expect. |
Measurements
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| Services
offered by a bridal consultant. |
Hours |
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have a bridal consultant is a good idea? |
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| Bridal
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What is a registry? |
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A bridal registry
is a list of products that a bride and groom want in order to inform
family and friends of their individual tastes and needs. The registry
may contain a variety of products from table top and home décor
items to lingerie (for personal showers). Each product is contained
within a listing or database within a store or via the internet to
allow individuals interested in purchasing gifts for a couple a guide
when deciding on the perfect gift. |
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Why should
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Registries are very
important today for innumerable reasons. Helping your guests chose
a wanted gift easily is the primary purpose of a registry, however
most contemporary gift registries offer many other services and "perks"
that make a bridal registry attractive to today's couple. Good record
keeping within a registry prevents a couple from receiving duplicate
items, and prevents the once inevitable return process. Good record
keeping also allows a business to record who purchased a couple's
gifts, which is very convenient if a card is lost. Madelynn's offers
incentives like 15% off of a couples invitations and a gift rebate
program which pays couples a percentage of the gifts they receive
in the form of a gift certificate. Madelynn's gift registry also provides
an important notification service: if a couple's dishware, flatware
or stemware is ever discontinued, Madelynn's will contact a previously
registered couple to inform them. The notification service allows
couples to finish sets of table top items before their items vanish
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When should we register? |
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Etiquette dictates
that a couple should register approximately four months prior to the
date of their wedding or one month prior to their first bridal shower.
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How do we register? |
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Different businesses
differ on their registry policies. In some businesses, a couple is
simply handed a sheet of paper or a "scanner" and are told
to pick out whatever they want. In Madelynn's, we feel that a more
"hands on" approach is beneficial to our registered couples.
Madelynn's offers couples that wish to register an expert who discusses
registry options, helps develop styles and provides guidance throughout
the registry process while recording items a couple wishes to add
to their registry. The benefit to the Madelynn's approach is two fold:
customers receive personal attention and guidance they deserve, and
the staff of Madelynn's knows exactly what a couple chooses for their
registry and why. After the completion of the registry, business officials
should inform couples of any pertinent registry policies. |
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What services should
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A registry should
be convenient for all involved, and in pursuit of that goal, a certain
level of service should be expected. A new service that has proven
invaluable for both couples and guests is the advent of the on-line
registry. On-line registries allow couples the ability to check the
status of their registry 24 hours a day and allow a couple's guests
the ability to shop for them any time and any where. Couples should
expect an on-line capability from their registry along with value
gift services, like free gift wrap, free enclosure cards, free local
delivery and the ability to ship via UPS and/or Federal Express for
a reasonable fee. Good record keeping is probably the most important
feature of registry that a couple should expect. Records should include
the name of an individual that purchased items from a couple's registry,
the amount of an item purchased and when the item was purchased. Good
records can help immensely if a card is lost. Records should be kept
in perpetuity. If a couple ever wants to add to a set of items, or
purchase items they may not have received for gifts, the registry
is the only record a couple has. A gift registry record system should
keep a detailed accounting of each item chosen, including item numbers,
the manufacturer, quantities requested & received, a "given
by" field and some modern registries include pictures of items.
Most modern registries are computerized so they can be adjusted easily
at any time. Discuss services provided with a business PRIOR to making
the decision to register with them to ensure that a couple receives
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Most registries
are provided by businesses that care about customer service, however
there are a few items you should watch for that could adversely affect
a couple engaged in the registry process. If a company does not provide
an individual to help a couple register, the registry often will contain
flaws. The flaws contained within a registry may cause returns, duplications
and subjection to return policies. Some companies require couples
to purchase registered items that they did not receive as gifts or
disallow returns on registered items. Madelynn's helps each guest
looking for a gift for a particular couple, but most companies simply
hand customers a sheet of paper with cryptic item descriptions and
let them go. A lack of service during the sale may result in incorrect
items purchased or duplicate items purchased. Service oriented businesses
cover all policies and procedures regarding the registry process during
the registry. If a company does not cover polices or provide good
service, they may be more trouble than they are worth. |
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| Bridal
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What do you want
in a gown? Is your determining factor for purchasing a gown the style,
price or a combination of both? Regardless of what you are looking
for, a little research prior to your search usually helps. Find styles
of gowns you may like in bridal magazines, or on the web. Madelynn's
has a great bridal style selection contained within our web site (Bridal),
or brides can visit www.theknot.com . Set up an appointment to reserve
an experienced bridal consultant to work specifically with you by
calling the store at (620) 343-2040, or e-mailing Madelynn's at maddyj@maddyj.com.
Bring pictures if you would like, style information, an approximate
wedding date, time of day your wedding will occur, level of formality
and your budget. Trained bridal consultants can generally help you
find just what you are looking for. Madelynn's consultants may even
provide some ideas or styles that you were not aware of but look great! We recommend that brides bring no more than two people with her when shopping for a gown. Many times, too many opinions can be confusing. |
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Gowns for different body
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The most common problem
most brides face is difficult: finding a style that they fall in love
with in a picture, but does not look good on their body type. Luckily,
today's bridal gowns come in so many styles/fabrics/colors that most
people can find something that enhances their natural beauty. Most
people do not look like the $2,000 an hour print models used in bridal
magazines and other advertisements, but an experienced bridal consultant
can determine a bride's body style and then guide them to an appropriate
gown. Often, consultants can find gowns that incorporate several aspects
of "the gown in the picture" into a gown that accentuates
a bride's body properly. A Madelynn's consultant, for example, would
discourage someone uncomfortable with their hips from wearing a sheath
style gown, and would suggest an a-line or maybe a ball gown instead.
Different neck lines, sleeve lengths, fabrics, train lengths and silhouettes
can all be used to accentuate different parts of a bride's body. Working
with experiences consultants can make finding the perfect gown for
a bride's individual shape, color and taste MUCH easier. |
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Budgeting for gowns |
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Bridal gowns generally
have a huge price range, starting at about $100 and some designer
gowns can cost several thousand dollars. Developing your acceptable
price range can decrease your stress level and help your consultant
show dresses within your range. Brides should sit with their families
prior to planning to develop a budget with allotments for each thing
each family is responsible for. Most quality wedding planners have
sections specifically dedicated to budgeting, and Madelynn's has a
wide variety of quality planners from which to choose. When budgeting
for a gown, remember that although decorative items like flowers and
table/pew decorations are important, the primary focus will be on
the bride and groom both during the ceremony and the reception. Make
sure that you include ALL costs of the gown into your general budget.
Madelynn's includes pressing and steaming, free storage
(up to the date of the wedding) and a free storage garment bag with
all regularly priced wedding gowns. Some boutiques charge significant
fees for the aforementioned bridal products or services which can
result in hundreds of dollars in additional costs. Make sure your
budget allows for the gown, its accessories and undergarments and
all costs associated with the gown.
Experienced bridal consultants can help most brides find the gown
style they are looking for in the price range they need to fit their
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Why service is VERY important |
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Have you ever been
to a wedding where the bride had to hoist her gown up to prevent herself
from tripping while walking down the isle? Have you ever watched a
bride spend the ceremony fumbling with a shoulder strap? When formalwear
does not fit or coordinate, one has to wonder what type of service
the bride received. A bride can purchase the most beautiful gown in
the world, but if it doesn't fit properly and it is not steamed and pressed, the
gown will not flatter the bride. A gown may be beautiful on a hanger,
but if it does not fit the body type and coloration of a bride it
will look off. Once a bride purchases a gown, some businesses disappear.
Madelynn's views the purchase of a bridal gown as the beginning of
a process in which a gown is usually special ordered, steamed, stored
and altered to the bride's body shape at the time of the first alteration.
Generally, brides shopping for a gown are doing so for the first time.
It is very important to have access to someone knowledgeable about
the bridal industry, gown fit and etiquette (like a Madelynn's consultant)
when planning a wedding. An experienced consultant can help you achieve
the perfect fit for a gown and give you additional care information
you might not have been aware of. |
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Gown Time-Table |
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Gowns should generally
be ordered at least 6 months in advance of the wedding date. This
time frame should allow for potential shipping delays, check in and
necessary alterations. In today's global marketplace, production delays,
shipping problems and other factors can effect the arrival date of
a gown significantly. Ordering a gown a minimum of 6 months in advance
gives a bride enough time to factor in most potential delays and still
have the gown altered before the wedding. Alterations should take
place 1 to 2 months prior to the wedding date. If a bride has a dress
altered before that time and her body composition changes, the gown
may not fit correctly. Some bridal boutiques have "off the rack"
styles that are usually discontinued gowns. Brides searching for gowns
less than six months from their wedding date may consider buying a
gown "off the rack" to avoid shipping problems. Check out
Madelynn's time
line to view time schedules for gowns and other wedding related
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Red flags |
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Brides and their
families need to know what a bridal business can and will do for them.
The responsibilities of the business and the bride should be clearly
stated in a contractual format. If a bridal shop doesn't have a contract
and they sell a gown laze fare economic laws take effect, and "buyer
beware" rules generally aren't beneficial for the consumer. Watch
out for services that businesses don't include in the original price
of an item, but they force you to buy. For example, if you save $20
on the initial price of a gown, but are then forced to pay alterations
charges of $300, you did not save a lot of money. A lack of service
at the beginning of a sale is a definite indicator of how you will
be treated after the sale. Consultants should help you try gowns on,
discuss style and help you find the fit that is right for you. If
consultants don't help you to any great degree before they sell you
a gown, they probably won't afterwards. A computerized register system
is also a must for bridal shops. Most brides pay for gowns and other
items on layaways. If a layaway system is not computerized, your payments
(and your gown) have the possibility of being lost. |
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Budgeting |
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A rental for a basic
tuxedo generally starts at about $50 per tux and can be as much as
$120 per tux depending on the style of the tux and accessories chosen.
Different companies have different tuxedo packages which may or may
not include a premium vest and tie upgrade in the price of the tuxedo.
Formal shoes are an additional cost in most instances, and Madelynn's
consultants are trained to price the entire ensemble prior to ordering.
Different wedding parties will handle tuxedo payments differently.
Some parties will pay for the entire wedding party's tuxedo rental,
while others will ask individuals within the party to pay for their
own tuxes. Make sure couples discuss payment for tuxedos when asking
individuals to join the wedding party. Wedding parties should ask
if any packages are available which decrease the parties cost. Madelynn's
general tux parties receive a free tux with every six paid rentals. |
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Styles and Body Types |
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Most tux jackets
will fit a variety of body types with one notable exception: double
breasted jackets should only be worn by taller gentlemen of slender
build. Besides the aforementioned exception, most tux jackets can
be worn by most men. If a gentleman possesses an unusual build, general
coat measurements may have to be altered to compensate for the individuals
body type. For example, a gentleman with a chest measurement that
is over seven inches larger than the waist measurement is generally
known as an "athletic cut". Gentlemen of an athletic cut
must have a larger coat size than generally needed to compensate for
the larger chest circumference and shoulder width. Experienced consultants
can easily spot unusual measurements and make the necessary changes
to compensate for body style. To check out Madelynn's tux styles on
line, visit our bridal
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Generally, tux parties need to
have their selections made and all of their measurements recorded
no later than one month prior to the wedding date. During high traffic
periods (prom, peak wedding season, etc.), it is a good policy to
have selections made and measurements recorded two months prior to
the wedding date. It is imperative that measurements be correct, and
if any member of the wedding undergoes a significant change in body
shape or style they should be re-measured immediately. Parties should
try on all tuxes a minimum of 48 hours prior to the wedding. If an
item does not fit, or there is some other tux related problem, a 48
hour time allowance generally gives the business time to acquire replacement
pieces. |
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Most gentlemen will
not wear tuxedos often, so it is important to have access to a professional
consultant that can critique the fit of the tuxedo and make any spot
alterations (if necessary). Consultants should be available to make
any necessary adjustments to tuxedos while gentlemen try them on inside
the business. Madelynn's offers free local delivery, which is a time
saver and prevents damaged or wrinkled tuxes. |
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Businesses that provide
no help or guidance when choosing tuxes can inadvertently provide
shoddy products to their customers. Consultants know the nuances of
each tux, vest and tie. This knowledge base allows consultants to
provide valuable information to wedding parties. If a business is
unable or unwilling to provide a customer with information, it may
be an indication that the lack experience. Businesses that simply
hand tuxes to customers without a try on may subject customers to
incorrect items. Even if a company has a 90% success rate, that still
means 10% of the tuxes have potential problems. If a customer tries
on a tux outside the business immediately prior to the wedding and
a significant problem exists, there may be nothing the business can
do to rectify the situation. Caring businesses should always encourage
customers to try on rental formalwear inside the store prior to use,
it is simply the responsible thing to do. Rental establishments should
be clear concerning the required return date and time because most
establishments require the payment of late fees on items returned
past a certain date and/or time. |
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Deciding Colors and Styles |
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In deciding the perfect
style of bridesmaid dress for a wedding, the same basic criteria are
considered as when an individual is picking a bridal gown with one
exception: multiple individuals with multiple body types must be considered.
Unless a bride is lucky enough to have a wedding party with the same
exact body type, using a style that works on multiple body types (an
a-line) is usually preferable. Experienced bridal consultants can
help brides choose a style of dress that fits both the individual
body types in the wedding and coordinates with the gown. The use of
color in the bridal party generally depends on the time of year and
the couples tastes. Bridal consultants are trained to identify appropriate
colors for different seasons and can work with bridal parties to choose
colors and styles that fit a couples wishes. Every wedding is different,
so for best results contact a bridal consultant at Madelynn's to discuss
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Bridesmaid dresses
should be ordered no later than 4 months prior to the wedding date.
This time frame should allow for potential shipping delays, check
in and necessary alterations. In today's global marketplace, production
delays, shipping problems and other factors can effect the arrival
date of a gown significantly. Ordering a gown a minimum of 4 months
in advance gives a bridal party enough time to factor in most potential
delays and still have the dresses altered before the wedding. Alterations
should take place 1 to 2 months prior to the wedding date. If a bridesmaid
has a dress altered before that time and her body composition changes,
the gown may not fit correctly. Check out Madelynn's
time line to view time schedules for gowns and other wedding related
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Budgeting Bridesmaids |
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Bridesmaid's dresses usually range
between $120 and $240 per dress. That price does not include shoes,
alterations or accessories, but Madelynn's brides that purchase their
bridal gown from Madelynn's receive a 20% discount on the bridesmaid
dresses for their party. Different wedding parties will handle bridesmaid
payments differently. Some parties will pay for the entire wedding
party's bridesmaid charges, while others will ask individuals within
the party to pay for their own dresses. Make sure couples discuss
payment for bridesmaid dresses when asking individuals to join the
wedding party. |
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Without accurate
measurements bridesmaid dresses will be ordered incorrectly. It is
always advisable for a bridesmaid to get measurements taken by the
business ordering their dresses. However, if a bridesmaid lives a
significant distance from the business from which their dress is ordered,
measurements may be taken by a professional experienced in formal
wear measurements. For bridesmaids, four measurements are generally
required to order a dress. The four required bridesmaid measurements
generally include the following: bust, waist, hips and hollow to hem.
Bust, waist and hips are common measurements that are fairly self
explanatory. The hollow to hem measurement starts at the hollow of
a women's neck and ends at the hem line and helps determine the length
of the dress. Additional information like shoe heel height or undergarment
style may also be required to ensure the accuracy of measurements.
After correct measurements are taken, it is important for a bridal
consultant or seamstress to ask a series of questions to check the
validity of their measurements. The bridesmaid should communicate
their normal dress size and any factor that may change their body
shape prior to the wedding (pregnancy, projected weight loss or gain,
etc.). Bridal consultants should then gather all of the aforementioned
information and present it with the dress company's standard size
chart, and the bridesmaid and bridal consultant should choose the
standard size that best fits the bridesmaid. |
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Most problems with
bridesmaid dresses stem directly from a lack of service. Bridal businesses
that do not form a relationship with brides and bridesmaid that allows
a dialogue generally cause problems for the wedding party. A wealth
of information needs to be gathered for the bridesmaid dresses to
fit the style of the wedding and for the dresses to fit properly.
If a business's is not asking questions and creating a dialogue, problems
can easily occur. It is important that a dress choice be a team effort
between the bride, bridesmaid and bridal consultant. Each individual
generally has different tastes and/or concerns, and it is the bridal
consultant's job to facilitate discussion which allows compromise
and the ultimate style choice. Madelynn's goes beyond simply facilitating
discussion and offers services like free steaming and free local delivery.
Madelynn's also offers a wide selection of shoes, undergarments and
bridal jewelry so brides and bridesmaids can create a complete look
without unnecessary travel. Bridal businesses truly concerned about
creating an exceptional look will always try to ensure that when bridesmaid's
dresses leave the business they are ready to wear. |
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For a complete wedding time line,
visit the Madelynn's wedding time line page here: Time-Line. |
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Hours and Location |
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Madelynn's is open
seven days a week. Our normal hours are 9:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. Monday
through Saturday. Madelynn's is open late Wednesday evenings until
7:00 p.m. and Madelynn's is open every Sunday from 1:00 p.m. to 5:00
p.m. Madelynn's is located at 511 Commercial in Emporia Kansas, or
you can visit the link to our location map. |
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Duties
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A bridal consultant
is essentially a coordinator with a wealth of bridal experience. The
consultant keeps people on schedule, organizes individuals for pictures
or other events, ensures that decorations are in place, helps dress
party members and generally deals with almost any emergencies that
occur prior to the ceremony. |
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Why having
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Think of a bridal
consultant as a major stress reliever and insurance policy wrapped
into the same person. Madelynn's consultants can perform spot sewing
functions, help with decorations, organize members of the wedding
party and generally keep things on schedule. Paying an individual
to take care of menial tasks and handle emergencies allows a wedding
party and their families the luxury of enjoying the wedding without
worrying about every little detail. Qualified consultants book extremely
quickly, so reserve your consultant as soon as possible. |
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